by Eric Grace
What is it to be a man?
Is it the lean and firm
muscles he develops
from true work?
Is it the strength
he uses to carry
the burdens of others
on his back?
Is a man he who
listens deeply
to the heart of another,
especially his partner,
giving solace and care
in abundance?
Is a man
he who gives
his attention generously
until its time
to say no,
where the no
is given as a gift
rather than as a closed door.
Is a man
he who
lives In the Earth
recognizing
Her wishes
and protecting them wildly
fondly cherishing
each creature
as if it were
his own child?
Is what makes a man
the way he calls out to God
yearning to know IT
in all Her Glory?
Does a real man
know what the
word surrender
means
in his bones?
And how to act
with courage
and swiftness when prompted to
from his guts?
Does a man that is true
know how to howl
at the moon,
with his pain, joy, and passion
embracing each as equals?
Would a real man
kiss his beloved’s
tender places
with the presence
of the gods
and the sweetness
of a honeysuckle?
Can a real man grok
the challenges
that his children face
ahead of them
and not get cynical
or despairing,
and then humbly
take steps
each day
to make it easier
for them to tread
their soul’s purpose in grace?
I wonder
if you will have the chance
to see
or become
a real man
in your lifetime.
Or have you already?
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